Dating Tips /
Below are some of the best tips and advice to improve your online dating experience!
Take It Easy /
If its your first time using online dating websites then make sure you pick a reputable one that you may have heard of. When you sign up don’t use your full name - its better to use an anonymous name for your own safety. This may be an opportunity to come up with something funny, cheeky or flirty as a username that might catch someone’s eye!
Research /
Have a look around the site, learn about the different features of the site that allow you to search in different ways and contact people. Once you’ve got the hang of the site then you can start searching through your potential dates.
Trust Your Instincts /
On your first search be aware of a profile that just sounds too good to be true – it probably is! Don’t just jump to get in contact with the first profile that catches your eye. Look around and get a good idea of the types of people on the site.
Protect Yourself /
Remember that you don’t need to give your full name, number or address straight away and definitely don’t put it in your profile sothat everyone else can see it. There is no need to reveal any of this information until you feel completely comfortable to do so.
Common Sense /
Like anything you do on the internet whether it is shopping or dating – use your common sense. Don’t do anything that you wouldn’t feel comfortable doing normally. Trust has to be earned so take your time in trusting strangers and make sure you get a good idea about the integrity and sincerity of the other person.
Use Your Eyes /
If the person you are talking to has not posted a photo then make sure you ask for a photo. After all its not a ‘blind date’ you are after! You need to see what they look like to see if you are attracted to them as well as their profile. More importantly if you intend on meeting the person then you should have a clear idea of what they look like. The more photos the better as its always a good idea to get a sense of the person in various different situations.
Speak On The Phone /
Whilst the wonders of modern technology mean all this communication can be made via the internet and email it is always good to talk on the phone to get a better idea about the person. You will be able to see what their social skills are like and see another side to them. Again – safety first you don’t need to give away your number if you don’t want to. You can use your mobile rather than your home phone.
Meet In Person/
You are under no obligation to meet the person no matter how many emails or phone conversations that have taken place so far. You only meet your prospective online date when you feel completely comfortable. If someone is really insistent on meeting you straight away then they might not be right for you.
Arrange A Secure Meeting Place /
Make sure you pick a place that you know and feel safe in. This may mean a bar you know well and/or arranging to meet at a time you would prefer. A public place where there are other people around is always the best option.
Body Language And Manner /
When you do eventually meet an online date then as well as enjoying the experience, keep an eye out for body language or manner that infers somebody who is pressurising or controlling. It’s unlikely to happen but be aware.